Date Coaching Expert

Ok, in How To Flirt With A Guy – Part 1, you discovered how to use your glances and changing body position to start the flirting ball rolling.

Now you are going to step things up to the next level and get your guy…

1. After another 10 or so minutes have passed in your new direct-facing position, you want to find an excuse to walk over in his direction. Wait until you see him looking over and then make your move. Whether you look at your mobile and pretend you want to listen to a message in private, or you make out you want to go to the ladies room, get a drink, some food or whatever, walk towards and passed him. When you do this, walk looking at your phone, looking generally around, slightly down or wherever, but not at him. Only when you are a few steps away from walking passed him do you look  up at him, smile, say hi, then look away and continue on. Now you’re fully in the game as it were
2. On the way back from your destination, make a point of walking back past and close to him and then resume your full on facing position and continue as before, but this time add in some periodic hair flicks or hair playing, some slightly accentuated head actions when laughing and occasionally smooth out the dress, trousers or top you have on with your hands to highlight your body – you know the kind of thing . Now, depending on a) his level of interest and b) his level of confidence, he may well soon come over and make an approach which would be fantastic. If this doesn’t happen, however, that’s ok, just keep up the looks and the actions.
3. Now, if after a while he still hasn’t come over, then all you need to do is wait until he is on his own at the bar, drinks table, food table, or wherever and then make your move. You want to go over to wherever he is and stand next to him. When you get there, smile and if he hasn’t seen you, let him know you are there by lightly touching him on the arm. Naturally he will turn around and see your smiling face. At this point immediately ask him a question like “Isn’t it frustrating when you don’t know what to drink/eat/choose?” or “What do you recommend as a good drink/choice/etc?”.  Naturally he has to answer and through that answer, you will have started a conversation.

Job done!

Now you know how to flirt with a guy effectively and ellicit the introduction you’re looking for. And remember, he may even come up to you beforehand so there’ll be no need to even get to the last stage.

Good luck!

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