We've asked the men, now it's time for the ladies - just what do girls look for in guys?
What you'll find is that there is a difference between the sexes in that there is more of a definitive list of traits girls require a man to at least possess some of, in order for them to find him attractive (and this is no doubt due due to historical and biological reasons, more than anything else). Once he's satisfied at least something from this list of prerequisites, then the rest is down to personal choice.
So from a guy's perspective, if there are no traits on this initial list you can honestly say you possess, then it's gonna be tougher for you to get a girl - that's for sure! Should that be the case, then try and choose 2 or 3 and work on developing them.
Ok, here's the prerequisite list;
- Confidence
- Drive and achievement-orientation
- To be taller than me
- The ability and willingness to protect and support me and themselves psychologically and physically
- A degree of aggression somewhere within their make-up
- Intelligence
- A degree of practical ability
- An initial attractive feature, usually something facial, a cute bum or biggish or well-toned arms
- Charm and/or humour
- Cleanliness
After that, it's down to pure personal choice, but if you satisfy at least 1 of the above criteria as a guy then "you're already in the game" as they say.
Good luck!
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Wow! What a great list of possible attributes……imagine if he had them all!!!?….
In reality, you have once again just reminded me that ‘the one’ will most likely not have all of the above, but that the right person will have one, two, maybe three of these attributes, and in doing so, meet the needs I have.
I look forward to my next installation of coaching, because I already feel more positive than I did about this whole dating game.