Many-a-man and many-a-woman has asked and will continue to ask the question "Am I good-looking enough to get a date?", but you know what - they really needn't.
And here's why...
The way you look is a structural trait that you exhibit. It is an outer and one-dimensional element that is partially representative of you, but it is not you! It's only 1 piece of your puzzle.
The way look, or if you like how good-looking you are, is not to be confused with attractiveness. Atrractiveness is an energetic quality you exhibit, which is generated by your inner traits such as confidence, humour, mental strength, intelligence, compassion, etc. and is magnetic in nature.
Now, don't get me wrong, being "good-looking" may be an aide to getting you more dates, but that's as far as it goes. Thereafter, assuming anything other than a quick sexual encounter is to come out of the date, you are going to need to exhibit attractive qualities. If the other party doesn't find you attractive, looks alone are NOT going to cut it.
So if you are worried about whether you have the credentials to get yourself a date, please stop asking yourself "Am I good-looking enough to get a date?" and start concentrating on those traits of yours that really count and make you attractive - I know you have plenty of them!
Just list them on a notepad and keep reading them back to yourself each day - this will reinforce these points to you as well as help firm up your self-belief and increase your confidence. As these 2 traits grow and develop within, they''ll also help you become more attractive to potential partners.
Good luck!
When I was back on the dating game, I had to remind myself that we are all in the same boat, and that most human beings feel insecure at some stage or another!
As I went on more dates, my confidence grew, even if the date didn’t come to anything. It’s good practice after all……